I want very much to start building a kinky library for myself. Does anybody have any suggestions for manuals, erotica, or any other types of BDSM-related books?
“She’s almost too kinky to function,” said my roommate.
Last Friday night, I brought my new man to The Woodshed with me, Hadassa, and her friend Nessa.
It was fucking fantastic.
Nick really got into it. He kept bouncing around the different areas and talking to people, learning about things and observing for the first 15-20 minutes, and then he was ready to dive right in. I had two scenes that night. During the first, I laid on a padded table and he used several different spanking implements like paddles and crops and floggers. He also massaged me periodically, so it was a great burst of endorphins from the pain and relaxation from him working my muscles. Afterwards, I had to sit for a while and cuddle on the couch. During the second scene, I was tied to the suspension ring in the middle of the room and blindfolded while he circled around me and teased me and used more spanking implements.
It was faaaantastic.
I mean, it was strange to do the things I usually do in private with lots of people around, knowing that they’re actually watching. I was scared to make noises; I wish I’d been able to let my guard down and just enjoyed the chance to show off how noisy I can be. But I enjoyed everything else overall. Nick shows a lot of promise, I can’t wait for him to really find his confidence and learn new tricks and tips from others.
Between the scenes, I talked to a few of the regulars, made some connections, and generally observed others acting out scenes. Nick got the owner of the club, Master Cecil, to teach him how to tie me up on the suspension wheel. It was kinda funny cause when Master Cecil walked up to Hadassa and me, he said something like, “I hope you ladies are enjoying yourselves tonight,” and I automatically responded, without knowing who he was and simply cause I was completely in subspace at that point, “Yes, Sir.” He smiled cheekily and cooed, “Good girl, that was very good.” He just carried himself in such a way that it seemed the only way to address him. I liked the way he taught Nick things as well, some of his tricks were veryyy good lol.
Anyways, I had a really fantastic night and I cannot wait to go back. It was seriously so fun. And the best endorphin rush, I was the best kind of high. No drugs, no alcohol, nothing, I was just floating. A sex high without the actual sex. I didn’t even want to drive home, I felt so good. I just wanted to curl up and eat something sweet like cake and cuddle and nap lol.
I will definitely be going back at the next best opportunity. To those of you who go to UCF and are into this sort of thing, or even just curious enough to want to see what this crazy BDSM stuff is all about, seriously I say go. If you wanna come with me, I really don’t mind. It’s fun to bring newbies and watch your faces. Hadassa’s friend Nessa didn’t have any interest in BDSM when she walked into the club, but while she was there she met a cute little submissive guy who wanted her to kick him in the balls and walk on his back, and she gave it a shot, and said she kinda enjoyed herself. I don’t know if she intends to go back, but she tried something new and didn’t feel too out of place.
So basically, I want y’all to come to the kinky sex club with me. I gotta corrupt everyone I know, I gotta get you hooked. :) And rest assured, no sexual intercourse or oral sex is allowed in the club, so if you didn’t want to go that far with a stranger, that’s a-ok cause you can’t lol.
Still can’t get over the Tardis paddle.
GIMME.
Just got back from my first trip to The Woodshed! Hadassa and I were there for a couple hours, just observing, after we got a tour of the place, and OH MY GOD. It’s like my wet dreams come true. I watched no less than half a dozen people get spanked, flogged, paddled, and whipped. I watched D/s couples, pet play couples, DD/lg couples, and a guy with a foot fetish. I watched some need rope work, fun positions on sex furniture, and this tall guy in a cage at the sadistic hands of a tiny little girl, screaming from unknown activities. One guy was using a freaking custom made Tardis paddle on his submissive. I saw somebody doing fire cupping.
Everybody was nice and welcoming. They were all very sweet about it being our first time, offered to talk, but if we wanted to hang back and observe we were welcome to do that (which we did). Hadassa got compliments on her boots and I got compliments on my corset. I’m excited to wear my lingerie there sometime, or maybe walk around naked like some of the others were doing. I’m just fucking enthralled. It was amazing, and I’m so excited to go back and learn more and meet more people and maybe try some stuff!
AHHHHHH I WENT TO A KINKY SEX CLUB!
Omg.. Girl.. I had so much fun!!!
The tardis paddle though, I gotta find/make one!
and we gotta go back soon..
ASAP! Seriously. We gotta learn some shit and play a little bit!
Just got back from my first trip to The Woodshed! Hadassa and I were there for a couple hours, just observing, after we got a tour of the place, and OH MY GOD. It’s like my wet dreams come true. I watched no less than half a dozen people get spanked, flogged, paddled, and whipped. I watched D/s couples, pet play couples, DD/lg couples, and a guy with a foot fetish. I watched some nice rope work, fun positions on sex furniture, and this tall guy in a cage at the sadistic hands of a tiny little girl, screaming from unknown activities. One guy was using a freaking custom made Tardis paddle on his submissive. I saw somebody doing fire cupping.
Everybody was nice and welcoming. They were all very sweet about it being our first time, offered to talk, but if we wanted to hang back and observe we were welcome to do that (which we did). Hadassa got compliments on her boots and I got compliments on my corset. I’m excited to wear my lingerie there sometime, or maybe walk around naked like some of the others were doing. I’m just fucking enthralled. It was amazing, and I’m so excited to go back and learn more and meet more people and maybe try some stuff!
AHHHHHH I WENT TO A KINKY SEX CLUB!
Can anybody recommend any good novels a la 50 Shades of Grey? Everytime I go into bookstores, there’s always a table full of “if you liked 50 Shades, try these!” books. Are any of them worth checking out? Or are they all misinformed misinterpretations of BDSM? Please, message me authors or titles or reply to this.
I’m trying to figure out more about fetlife.
Add me- littlebluebird25
Alright, so I know how to move on from failed vanilla relationships. Eat lots of ice cream, whine, bitch, realize how awesome I am, continue on, easy peasy.
How do I handle the D/s stuff? How do I trust another Dom again? This was my first foray into real kink stuff. How do you recover from giving all of yourself over to a D/s relationship, only to get burned? What do I do now?
Those sex blogs that reblog fantastic, hardcore shit with a cheese-fest caption.
Nobody wants your awkward, mushy caption all up in their hardcore sex gifs.
JUST STOP PLEASE.
I’m going to a sex store today. :) Which would be more exciting if I actually expected to find what I really want there, but it doesn’t seem to be a BDSM exclusive store.
AND IF ANYONE IN ORLANDO CAN RECOMMEND SUCH A SHOP TO ME, I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT. I’m tired of ordering things online and hoping they’re what I want. I want to see and feel things in a store before I shell out cash for it.
I want this outfit!
